LSM GENDER POLICY

Everyone who attends LSM events, members or non-members, must identify with our gender policy:

“Membership in the Lesbian Sex Mafia is open to all women regardless of level of experience or time in the kink community so long as they are at least 18 years of age. LSM is a trans-inclusive organization and accepts applications from all women, as well as nonbinary, genderqueer, and transmasc people, so long as they feel they have a connection to queer women’s community.”

LSM COMMUNITY GUIDELINES

  1. No one under the age of 18 is allowed to attend ANY LSM event
  2. Consent is not a given, it must be explicitly obtained and can be revoked at any time
  3. No racism, transphobia, ableism, fatphobia, ageism, classism, kink shaming, slut shaming, anti-sex work or other hate language
  4. No threatening or harassing other members or attendees
  5. No sharing photos or identifying information about other members without permission
  6. Do not involve people in any play they haven’t consented to be involved in

LSM PLAY PARTY ETIQUETTE

  1. All activity must be consensual. Do not join other people’s scenes, borrow their toys, or toy with their bottom if you do not have permission to do so. Regardless of your established personal safeword, the universally recognized party safeword is “RED”.
    • If your scene will include consensual non-consent, please notify the Dungeon Monitor in the area.
  2. If you want to watch a scene in progress, please feel free. However, be considerate. Do not interrupt, distract the players, or crowd the scene.
    • Keep any side conversation at a low volume. Watch respectfully and do not make audible critiques.
    • If you see something that is concerning, do not interfere. Please speak to the nearest Dungeon Monitor.
  3. LSM Play Team (Board Members and Dungeon Monitors) are here to assist you.  If you have a question, feel free to ask.
    • Dungeon Monitors wear high-vis safety vests. On-duty board members have glowing armbands.
    • If anyone from the LSM Play Team asks you to do something/stop what you’re doing, please follow their instructions. Otherwise, you may be asked to leave and not return.
  4. Keep in mind while playing that this is a shared space. Don’t crowd or disrupt other scenes, and don’t occupy play furniture for an excessive period of time. The LSM Play Team reserves the right to ask you to wrap up using a station after 1 hour of play.
  5. Please use safer sex supplies & barriers even if you don’t use them at home. For any play involving bodily fluids, including blood, use a puppy pad/chucks. No bare bottoms on furniture.
    • Clean up after yourself! Wipe down any communal equipment you have used.
  6. Sharps, bloodplay, and wax play are to be in the designated areas only, with barriers over play furniture. Check in with a Dungeon Monitor before starting your scene to ensure you have the proper equipment and safety precautions.
    • If you are doing needle or sharps play, you must bring your own sharps container. Sharps containers must be a labeled product intended for use as a sharps container. You MUST take your sharps container with you when you leave for disposal.
  7. The following types of play are not permitted in this space:
    • Watersports or scat.
    • Any open flames EXCEPT for candles for wax play.
  8. No food is allowed in the play areas, only in the social areas near the bar.
    • LSM events are nut-free spaces. Please do not bring ANY products containing peanuts or tree nuts.
  9. No consumption or possession of alcohol, cannabis, or illegal substances permitted on the premises. Please no smoking or vaping– this can be a migraine, allergy, & asthma trigger for other attendees.
  10. Paid sex work of any kind is absolutely prohibited at LSM meetings and events.
  11. No photography is allowed. If you need to use your phone, please cover the camera with tape and only use it only in the social areas near the bar.
  12. What happens at the party stays at the party. Discussing scenes you may witness at an LSM party with others who did not attend the party is considered bad form and a breach of confidentiality. REMEMBER: WHO AND WHAT YOU SEE STAYS HERE.
  13. LSM RESERVES THE RIGHT TO REFUSE ATTENDANCE TO ANYONE AT ANY TIME.

YOUR ENTRY TO AN LSM PARTY IS AN AGREEMENT TO ABIDE BY THESE RULES.
HAVE FUN AND PLAY SAFELY!!!!!