1/23 LSM Presents: What’s in Your Toybag + Member Orientation

Are you a pledge member who wants to be a full-fledged LSM member? Curious about LSM/BDSM, but not ready to commit? Want a BDSM 101 lesson? Join us.

 2/22  LSM’s Hand-Cuffing Season: Winter Play Party – SAVE THE DATE

Ticket and Volunteer Slot Release Dates:
1/26 | 8pm ET | Volunteer slots open (members get 1st dibs)
2/1 | 8pm ET | Member tix release
2/8 | 8pm ET | Non-Member tix release

1/10 LSM Presents: Queens Cafe Munch (January)

HEY QUEEEENS! Kinky, queer joy is the best revenge. Never been to an LSM event? Here’s your chance to start 2026 off right!

1/25 LSM Presents: POC Munch (January)

Start 2026 off right. Meet up with kinky queers of color at a munch in BK. SAVE THE DATE. RSVP and location TO COME.

1/31 LSM Presents: Kinky Craft Night – RSVP required

Something NEW for the new year. At Boyfriend Co-op, 6-9p. The venue has asked us to limit the size of our group, so RSVP is required for this one. Check eventbrite for additonal deets.

1/7 LSM Presents: Monthly Bar Night at Henrietta’s – January – Wednesday Edition

Cheers queers. Our usual 1st Thurs fell on New Year’s Day…so we rescheduled for the following Wednesday. Be a resolutionary and cross “Go to an LSM event” off your new year’s list!

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Founded in 1981 by Dorothy Allison and Jo Arnone, the Lesbian Sex Mafia (LSM) is the oldest continuously running women’s BDSM support and education group in the country. Membership in LSM is open to all women regardless of level of experience or time in the kink community so long as they are at least 18 years of age. We are a trans-inclusive organization and accept applications from all women, as well as nonbinary, genderqueer, and transmasc people, so long as they feel they have a connection to queer women’s community.