11/21 | 8pm ET | November All-Gender Workshop:

Pain and Pleasure
with Master SteeleToe the Bootblack

This workshop dives into how the body responds to stimuli and translates sensations as pain and/or pleasure. After discussing the physiological effects of stimuli, we will explore how to properly navigate “pain” pla

 11/16  BITE ME: Fall Play Party is SOLD OUT (Join the waitlist)

Sometimes you get what you beg for: a fall LSM play party.
Ticket and Volunteer Slot Release Dates:
10/7 | Volunteer slots open (members get 1st dibs)
10/14 | Member tix release
10/21 | Non-Member tix release

Volunteer Form for BITE ME Play Party (on 11/16) ALL SPOTS FILLED – fill out the form in case we need alternates

1hr = 1/2 priced ticket. 2 hrs gets you in for free. EXPERIENCED DMs to the front.

11/6 LSM Presents: Monthly Bar Night at Henrietta’s – November

Lucky enough to grab a ticket to the BITE ME Party? Here’s another chance to cruise for play dates.

11/13 LSM Member-Only Board Meeting

Hey Full Members – This sexy, freaky stuff doesn’t happen by itself. Help us make it happen. Email us at LesbianSexMafia@gmail.com for zoom link.

11/23 LSM Presents: POC Munch (November)

Meet up with kinky queers of color at a munch in BK.

No Queens Cafe Munch (November)

Taking November off. We’ll be back on December 20. See you then.

December Preview:

12/3 – Get Involved with LSM: Volunteering and Running for the Board

The kinky, freaky stuff doesn’t happen on its own. Join the Board for a Q&A sesh.

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Founded in 1981 by Dorothy Allison and Jo Arnone, the Lesbian Sex Mafia (LSM) is the oldest continuously running women’s BDSM support and education group in the country. Membership in LSM is open to all women regardless of level of experience or time in the kink community so long as they are at least 18 years of age. We are a trans-inclusive organization and accept applications from all women, as well as nonbinary, genderqueer, and transmasc people, so long as they feel they have a connection to queer women’s community.